SK: As progressive as we now are, there's still a lot of bias, not only in the aviation industry but at an overall level too. I feel the need to be more assertive and confident in the cockpit, so that I'm taken seriously because soon I am due to take command as captain. I often find myself being compared not only to my peers but also my own father, owing to how established he is in the industry after almost two decades.
A lot of people question me about the long hours, erratic schedules and all the solo travelling that I end up doing as part of my job, saying things like "you are a girl, aren't you scared to be coming back from flights so late?" or things like "tum toh ladki ho, itni mehnat mat karo, ultimately shaadi hi toh karni hai (you're a girl, why bother working so hard? You will get married eventually…)" or my all-time favorite "ladki hoke plane chalati ho! (you're flying a plane despite being a woman)."
Why be so surprised?